By Chrystal Pfeifer
From PHN Issue 51, Winter 2023
My name is Chrystal and I have been on the inside since 1988. … Yes, 33 years! I have always, always been aware of the fact that we must take care of ourselves physically, emotionally and spiritually. I was 24 when I entered and am now 56. I could write a book.
When I turned 50, I started getting routine mammograms every year here at ORW. The results from last year’s mammogram suggested that I needed further magnified images at OSU (Ohio State University). The magnified images showed that I had 2 different clusters of calcification that needed to be biopsied.
I was sent to OSU for the surgery and was then diagnosed with stage 1 ductal and lobular cancer in my right breast. The first thing that came to my mind was that my journey ahead might be a lonely one. … More so because all I was allowed was an armed correctional officer with me at all times! Don’t get me wrong, the officer was very nice, the nurses were awesome, the doctors wonderful. BUT, none of them loved me—none of them kissed my forehead or even touched my hand. Social distancing if you ask me. Never a loved one allowed.
I also underwent 21 sessions of external radiation to my right breast after the lumpectomies—always with an armed correctional officer. I am so grateful for the faith that I have in God and his love for me. I was so scared at times, and he comforted me because I asked.
Six months later, I received my first mammogram since the treatments. I couldn’t believe it when I was told I had 4 new clusters that needed to be biopsied! I was overwhelmed! If it wasn’t for my family and friends, at home and on the inside, I couldn’t have remained so strong, so positive, and bounced back so quickly. I remembered that I was much, much stronger than the average woman. I have a will unlike the average woman and have been waiting over half my life for a second chance.
What I learned more deeply the second time around was how important early detection is! The cancer had never had time to spread to my lymph nodes. My options were either to have a total mastectomy or more radiation. I chose the mastectomy.
I am sincere when I say that my GYN here at ORW has been very informative and that EVERYONE was wonderful at OSU.
I now take a small dose of chemo daily for the next 10 years with prayers that the cancer will never return to my bones or anywhere else.
I know that God’s love and strength are always with me—and it shows deeply when my friends on the inside celebrate my return.
I am truly loved and blessed. … and so truly thankful for every day I am given.
